A Café Conversation About Managing Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS)

By Dr. Priya Sammani ( MBBS, DFM )

It was a breezy Sunday morning. The golden leaves swirled lazily around the outdoor seating area of The Daily Grind, a cozy café where I often met patients who preferred a more informal setting. Today, I was meeting Olivia, a 32-year-old marketing executive who had reached out for advice on a problem affecting her daily life.

As I sipped my cappuccino, Olivia arrived, her usual bright smile dimmed by weariness. She set down her chai latte with a sigh.

“Dr. Priya, I feel like I’m losing my mind every month. The mood swings, the bloating, the headaches – it’s like clockwork. Is this normal?”

I nodded sympathetically. “You’re definitely not alone, Olivia. It sounds like Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS). Let’s talk through it and figure out a plan that works for you.”

What is Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS)?

Premenstrual Syndrome, commonly known as PMS, refers to a group of physical and psychological symptoms that occur in the luteal phase of the menstrual cycle, typically 1 to 2 weeks before a period starts. These symptoms usually resolve once menstruation begins. PMS is primarily caused by hormonal changes in the body during this phase, particularly fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone levels.

“About 90% of women experience some PMS symptoms,” I explained to Olivia. “It can range from mild to severe, and it tends to increase with age.”

Olivia sighed. “I just thought I was being overly dramatic. What are some typical symptoms?”

Common Symptoms of PMS

I pulled out a notebook and sketched a simple diagram to help her visualize it. PMS symptoms generally fall into two categories: psychological and physical.

Psychological Symptoms:

Physical Symptoms:

  • Nausea
  • Headache
  • Dizziness
  • Hot flashes
  • Acne
  • Breast swelling and tenderness
  • Bloating
  • Constipation
  • Swelling of the ankles

“Do any of these sound familiar?” I asked gently.

“Pretty much all of them,” Olivia said, rubbing her temples. “Especially the bloating and irritability. It’s like I become a different person.”

Why Does PMS Happen?

PMS is linked to the natural hormonal changes that occur in the second half of the menstrual cycle. After ovulation, the levels of estrogen and progesterone fluctuate significantly. This affects neurotransmitters like serotonin, which play a crucial role in mood regulation.

“The buildup of fluid retention in your body during this time is also why you feel bloated,” I explained. “It’s your body preparing for a potential pregnancy, even if it doesn’t happen.”

What Can Be Done About PMS?

“Okay,” Olivia said, “but how can I manage this? It’s affecting my work and relationships.”

I smiled reassuringly. “There’s a lot we can do. Let’s break it down into some key strategies.”

1. Insight and Awareness

Understanding PMS and recognizing that your symptoms are due to hormonal changes can be empowering. It helps to talk to your family and close friends about what you’re experiencing.

“Just knowing that it’s not ‘all in your head’ can help reduce the stress and stigma,” I told Olivia.

2. Keep a Symptom Diary

Tracking your symptoms can provide valuable insights into when they occur and how severe they are. Over 2 to 3 months, note the timing, intensity, and type of symptoms.

“Use this information to plan ahead,” I suggested. “For example, avoid scheduling high-stress meetings during those days or postpone major decisions if possible.”

3. Lifestyle Changes

Lifestyle adjustments can make a significant difference in managing PMS symptoms. Here are some key changes to consider:

Dietary Recommendations:

  • Eat smaller, frequent meals rather than large ones to maintain stable blood sugar levels.
  • Reduce salt, caffeine, and alcohol, which can worsen bloating and mood swings.
  • Increase complex carbohydrates (like whole grains, fruits, and vegetables) to boost serotonin levels.
  • Maintain an ideal weight, as excess weight can exacerbate symptoms.

Exercise:

  • Engage in regular exercise like swimming, walking, or aerobics.
  • Aim for at least 30 minutes of activity most days of the week. Exercise boosts endorphins, which improve mood and reduce pain.

Relaxation Techniques:

  • Practice yoga, meditation, or deep-breathing exercises to reduce tension.
  • Find time for activities you enjoy, like reading, gardening, or listening to music.

4. Medication Options

For more severe PMS, medications can be helpful.

  • Vitamin B6 (Pyridoxine): Taking 100 mg daily for 6 months may alleviate mood swings and bloating.
  • Analgesics: Over-the-counter pain relievers like ibuprofen or paracetamol can help with headaches, breast tenderness, and cramps.
  • Antidepressants: In some cases, your doctor may prescribe SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) to help manage mood-related symptoms.
  • Hormonal Treatments: Birth control pills can regulate hormone levels and reduce PMS symptoms.

“Make sure to discuss any medication options with your doctor,” I reminded Olivia.

The Importance of Support

“Have you considered joining a support group?” I asked. “Talking to other women who experience the same challenges can be incredibly validating.”

Olivia nodded thoughtfully. “That sounds like a good idea. Maybe it’ll help me feel less isolated.”

Long-Term Management and Self-Care

Managing PMS is about finding what works best for you. It often takes a combination of self-awareness, lifestyle adjustments, and medical support.

Key Takeaways for PMS Management:

  1. Understand Your Symptoms: Knowledge is power.
  2. Track Your Cycle: Awareness helps with planning and reducing stress.
  3. Adopt Healthy Habits: Diet, exercise, and relaxation are key.
  4. Consider Medical Support: Don’t hesitate to seek help if symptoms are severe.
  5. Build a Support System: Talk to friends, family, or support groups.

A Hopeful Outlook

As we finished our drinks, Olivia’s shoulders seemed a little lighter.

“Thank you, Dr. Priya,” she said with a smile. “I feel like I have a plan now. I’m going to try the symptom diary and make some changes.”

“You’re welcome, Olivia. Remember, you’re not alone, and there are ways to manage this. We’ll tackle it together.”

She left the café with a renewed sense of hope, ready to take charge of her health and well-being.